{"id":39309,"date":"2024-05-17T08:16:15","date_gmt":"2024-05-17T08:16:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gyalchisarshog.com\/?p=39309"},"modified":"2024-05-17T08:16:19","modified_gmt":"2024-05-17T08:16:19","slug":"my-ex-took-my-children-hope-for-divorced-parents-as-japan-to-allow-joint-child-custody","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gyalchisarshog.com\/?p=39309","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;My ex took my children&#8217;: Hope for divorced parents as Japan to allow joint child custody"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">BBC:   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Japanese parliament has approved a change to a decades-old law, which will allow divorced couples to share custody of their children from 2026.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Traditionally, custody is granted to a single parent who is then able to completely cut off the other parent&#8217;s access to their children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Until Friday, Japan was the only G7 country that did not recognise the legal concept of joint custody.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most divorces in Japan happen through &#8220;consent divorce&#8221; &#8211; where both parties sign a paper and mutually end a marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this scenario, lawyers say, the couple is free to decide custody and visitation arrangements. But if the two parties go to court, the judge awards custody to one parent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This system has drawn criticism from divorced parents who say they have been estranged from their children as a result.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Minako Sato* is one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Ms Sato moved to her elderly mother&#8217;s house to help out for a couple of months, she and her ex-husband agreed he&#8217;d bring her then 10-year-old son and five-year-old daughter to visit on weekends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This arrangement continued for about a month and a half. But Ms Sato said she noticed that her former husband had changed &#8211; he was quieter and more distant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He stopped talking to me when he brought the kids to my mother&#8217;s house,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;At first I thought he was tired from driving. I didn&#8217;t understand what was happening.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then he told her he would no longer bring the kids to see her every weekend, claiming his mother called her a bad influence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BBC: The Japanese parliament has approved a change to a decades-old law, which will allow divorced couples to share custody of their children from 2026. Traditionally, custody is granted to a single parent who is then able to completely cut off the other parent&#8217;s access to their children. Until Friday, Japan was the only G7 country that did not recognise the legal concept of joint custody. Most divorces in Japan happen through &#8220;consent divorce&#8221; &#8211; where both parties sign a paper and mutually end a marriage. 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